Hey guys, it’s Move Me Monday and I’m thinking about self-esteem.
Who’s seen TLC’s What Not to Wear? I love this show. People nominate their fashion-challenged friends to get a makeover and new wardrobe from two of the fashion industry’s leading experts, Stacy London and Clinton Kelly.
The show starts off with what can be interpreted as belittling and teasing as Stacy and Clinton make the contestants step into a 360 degree mirror so all the flaws of their current wardrobe can be pointed out. The intent is not to beat someone’s self-esteem down, however, but to point out why a certain type of clothing does not flatter their body type. The contestants are then shown alternatives that will work well for them (and most of their current wardrobe is dumped in a garbage bin).
Stacy and Clinton are not about promoting zero size, Barbie figures. They are about positive self-body image regardless of how many curves one may have. It’s all about loving yourself and dressing in a way that proclaims to the world, “I do love myself for who I am–all of me.”
My favorite episodes show women with horrible self-esteem issues undergoing a transformation that leaves them learning to love themselves for who they are and how they look. Often they’re worried about drawing attention and their jeans and t-shirts are an effort to be invisible. But, as Stacy and Clinton point out, no one else is judging your flaws; they’re too busy worrying about their own!
So, is it vanity to dress in a way that flatters yourself? I don’t think so. It all comes down to your motivation. How do you present yourself to the world? Why? Are you compensating? Hiding? Do you just enjoy life?
Do you love yourself? How do you show it? Do you dress in a way that says, “I feel good”? Are you too busy taking care of other people that you neglect yourself? I love hearing from you!
You can also find me on Mistress Suzie’s blog today for another flash fiction episode of The Adventures of Teagan.